Thursday, January 21, 2010
Ultimatum
How do you deliver an ultimatum? Is there ever a way to? Is there ever a reason to? If you get to the place where you have to give someone ultimatum, are things already past repair. Because by telling someone they have to do something, you are essentially telling them you are hanging them out to dry. You are asking them to change. In relationships, in life, you aren't suppose to ask someone to change. You are suppose to accept people for the way they are and love them for their flaws. So if you are asking them to change, do you really love them or are you just trying to change them?
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It's absolutely impossible to change ANYBODY that is willing to reflect on their own behavior and have a desire to change themselves for themselves. If you find that many flaws in a person and you find them unacceptable, then it isn't meant to be. Don't waste time waiting b/c it will never happen and don't settle for less than you want b/c in the end, you'll be the only one that changes and you inevitably stop liking your own self and wonder, "how the hell did that happen?" lol.
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